Do you ever feel like you become the centre of family conflicts even when you’re trying to stay calm? Arguments start unexpectedly, misunderstandings grow, and you end up being blamed or dragged into tension at home.

According to Swami Prabhakar Ji, this pattern is often linked to specific planetary combinations (yogas) in the birth chart that trigger गृह कलह (Grah Kalah). The good news: once you identify the cause, you can take practical steps and simple remedies to restore peace and improve family relationships.

Quick Note Before You Read

This blog is based on Moon sign (Chandra Rashi) and the overall chart tendencies. For accuracy, always confirm with a full Kundli analysis.

1) Chandra–Rahu Grahan Yoga (Moon–Rahu Eclipse Combination) causing Family Conflicts

When Moon and Rahu influence each other strongly, it can create mental restlessness, confusion, overthinking, and emotional instability. That often becomes the root of ideological clashes, unnecessary arguments, and misunderstanding at home casuing Family Conflicts

What it looks like in life

• You feel misunderstood even when your intention is clean

• Small issues quickly become big debates

• Mood swings and anxiety increase family tension

  
  

Remedy (Separate)

Monday Remedy:

• Offer water mixed with milk + a few black sesame seeds to a Shivling

• Chant: “Om Namah Shivaya”
  

2) Shani–Mangal Conjunction or Opposition (Saturn–Mars Combination)

Saturn and Mars together create a harsh internal pressure: anger vs control, frustration vs duty. This produces stress-driven reactions, harsh speech, and intense clashes in relationships.

What it looks like in life

• Arguments feel sudden and aggressive

• You or someone at home becomes very rigid

• Emotional warmth reduces; distance increases

Remedy (Separate)

Saturday Remedy:

• Visit Hanuman Ji temple or Shani Dev temple

• Keep actions simple: prayer, silence, discipline
  

3) Surya–Rahu Conjunction (Sun–Rahu Combination / Pitra Dosh)

This yoga can disturb respect, trust, and balance with father figures, elders, or authority. It can create ego clashes and misunderstanding, leading to a “constant background tension” in family dynamics.

What it looks like in life

• Frequent issues with father/elders

• Lack of trust, miscommunication, ego problems

• Feeling like “no one values what I do”

  
  

Remedy (Separate)

Sunday Remedy:

• Offer water to the Sun (Surya Arghya)

• Chant Gayatri Mantra regularly

4) Rahu or Ketu in the 4th House (Home & Peace Axis Disturbed)

The 4th house represents emotional security, home peace, and motherly comfort. Rahu/Ketu here can make you feel emotionally detached from home, restless, or “not connected,” which can unknowingly make you the centre of friction.

What it looks like in life

• Feeling disconnected from family despite being present

• Frequent changes at home, instability, dissatisfaction

• Emotional distance becomes conflict triggers

Remedy (Separate)

Wednesday + Saturday Remedy:

• Worship Lord Ganesha regularly (especially Wednesdays)

• Help needy children on Wednesdays and Saturdays
  

5) Chandra–Shani Vish Yoga (Moon–Saturn Poisonous Combination)

Moon with Saturn can produce long-term emotional heaviness: sadness, coldness, isolation, and mental pressure. This can lead to constant dissatisfaction at home and repeated conflicts, even when no one “wants” to fight.

What it looks like in life

• Feeling emotionally alone in your own house

• Domestic environment feels dry, tense, or joyless

• Repeated misunderstandings and silence wars

Remedy (Separate)

Monday Remedy:

• Offer water mixed with milk + black sesame seeds to a Shivling

• Maintain basic routine: early sleep, clean food, calm speech

Practical Relationship Tips (Works Along With Remedies)

Even with yogas, daily behaviour decides the results. These help immediately:

• Avoid reacting in the first 10 seconds

• Keep one “peace boundary” (no shouting, no insults)

• Don’t argue in the kitchen/bedroom (these spaces hold emotional energy)

• If conflict repeats, talk in daylight, not late night

When Should You Take a Personal Consultation?

If you see these patterns repeatedly and feel you’re becoming the “target” at home, it’s best to check:

• Moon sign + 4th house + Rahu/Ketu axis

• Dasha periods (especially Moon, Rahu, Saturn)

• Transits triggering the same combinations

  
  

For a personalised family peace analysis, you can consult Swami Prabhakar Ji at Jeevan Rahasya with your:

• Date of Birth

• Time of Birth

• Place of Birth